what we want

I felt annoyed by him. 

I felt I needed space. so i decided i wouldnt stay the night and asked him if he feels were spending too much time together and he said that he too needed space. I however got mad because I wanted attention, I dont want him to want to be away from me!! I was really sad by what he had to say, however i did bring it on myself. so now were in this bizarre position where neither one of us makes sense because I am trying to justify my anger by saying things that dont make complete sense and he is trying to dismiss the fight by saying he is tired. we both want to be together we both want space we both dont want to fight but....